JB in HK

My adventures in moving to Hong Kong.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Dec. 10, 2006 - Holiday Lights & Shek O

Need to actually start out with Friday night, our company Christmas dinner. We went to a Korean BBQ restaurant, where you cook your own food. You order platters of meet, seafood & veggies. There are grills in the middle of the table (actually flames under a metal slotted top). You slap your food on there & let it cook. Of course there are a ton of wonderful sauces & side dishes they serve. I couldn't believe the amount of food. It was lots of fun & lets say the sake flowed freely. I'm not a fan of sake, so I was able to make sure the food didn't burn! It was a fun time had by all. The group here is really a good one.

Saturday I didn't do much but run some errands. I had to go pay our electric bill. We've been having it auto-payed, but for some reason that stopped & the first I knew of it was Friday when there was a notice in our mailbox saying our power would be turned off in one business day if not paid. So I went out to where the main office is to get it paid. It did allow me to explore a new area, but nothing very exciting out there. There was a street named Fukk Yiu Street - but I resisted the temptation to be a typical American tourist & take a photo. Just kind of silly. Making the payment was quick and simple, the usual HK efficiency & this morning (Monday) we still have electricity, so I guess it was successful.

Sunday we ate breakfast at our new favorite breakfast place, The Flying Pan. I think the Homestead in Chazy has lost out, except of course for the company we get to enjoy at the Homestead! I went off they Kristin & Steve to explore a new part of the Island. This is their last weekend here, so they wanted to see some more of the outlying parts of the island. We headed to the small oceanside village of Shek O. We went almost to the end of the MTR line (further than any of us had gone before) & then took a bus for about 20 minutes. The views from the bus were spectacular as it climbed up over the mountain to the other side of the island. The buses are great because you can see above the trees if you ride on the upper level.

We got off at Shek O, which is a small village. On the say in we passed the Shek O country club & golf course, very nice! The houses around the golf course were beautiful. I'm sure very high rent. The little village had narrow winding streets and lots of pedistrians. There were several restaurants that were mostly outside, very casual. We walked to the beach & then on the rocks around a point to the other side of the Shek O penninsula. If you check out my photos you will see that I got into watching & photographing the water & rocks. I was actually waiting for the others to catch up, so tryed to get some good water/rock shots.

The thing we all noticed immediately was how quiet it was out there. Just the birds & water, very relaxing. Steve said he'd stay in HK to work, if he could have a place out there. Of course it'd be a heck of a commute. There were lots of people out picnicing & BBQing (a very popular thing to do on Sundays). We had an excellent meal at a sort of Italian place. Wonderful mint lemonade - like an icey with fresh mint leaves mixed into it. YUM! I wasn't too hungry so just had a bowl of pumpkin soup - very tasty.

That night we went to our favorite Japanese restaurant (very international day for eating). Afterwards we saw the Symphony of Lights light show (this takes place every night at 8pm, but the best place to see it is on the harborside). The buildings light up & do a laser/light show to music. It's good. We also got to enjoy the Christmas lights across the harbor. Some pretty good shots of those on the photo site. I'm sure the temperature was in the low 70's which was very nice. Still in short sleeves even at night. It is most pleasant finally.

Friday, December 08, 2006

Pashmina Story - just in case you were curious

OK, for anyone who is curious, here is the story about Pashminas. In case you don't know what a Pashmina is - it is a large scarf/shawl in many colors that people all over Asia & India wear. If you know where to look, you can get them VERY inexpensively (I can't tell how inexpensively because then the people I've given them to will know how cheap I am!! hee hee).

I bought a few today & inside there was this:

The Pasmina Story
Pashmina, from the persian word for wool, is popularly known in the west as cashmere wool, from the old spelling for Kashmir. The fine wool comes from the undercoat of himalayan mountain sheep, raised by semi-nomadic herders. It yields 3 - 8 ounces of fiber per year. The Tibetan plateau provides the ideal environment for pashmina growth. The fiber is exceptionally absorbent and it dyes very easily and deeply. In recent years, pashmina shawl has been in fashion all over the world for its luxurious rarity, its incomparable softness, warmth and durability.

So there you have it, now the mystery of just what exactly Pashmina is has been answered. I'm just full of useless information, aren't I?

Wednesday, December 06, 2006

Pumpkin Pie & YIKES - my first HK ice rink!!! Dec. 6

This morning I baked a pumpkin pie. Turned out pretty well. It did take about 2 hours to cook though. I can't figure out this oven. It must be a convection & it must cook differently. I know I have the temp right because I'm figuring out the conversion online. Hey, I just had a thought, maybe the oven is Farenheit. It's european, it couldn't be. I'll have to reread the directions.

The Cadmus staff enjoyed the treat. I picked up my HK ID card, so now I'm an official resident. We can carry these cards instead of carrying our passport around town & also good for returning to HK. We now can go through the quick line. John is thrilled. I guess this will make his trips back from Mainland much quicker.

I went out to deposit some checks for Cadmus. This is always an adventure. The bank (Bank of America) branch that will accept the checks is several train stops away. Today I took the bus just to be adventuresome. Since this is my 3rd time out there I pretty much knew when to get off. I like the bus because I get to see so much & it's just more interesting. After getting rid of the checks, I visited that huge store I went to last time - Jusco. It's still huge. I went through the grocery store this time - it's huge. On one side of the grocery store there is a large food court, so I got a noodle dish. Pretty good. I wandered around the store, but it was too crowded to really buy anything.

Ruby had told me about another shopping center just around the block from Jusco, so I went there next. The malls are really decorated up for Christmas so I thought it would be fun to see this one. I also thought I recalled there might be an ice rink in this mall. The mall was huge & after some searching I did find the rink. It is on the 2nd floor off at one end. It isn't very large, not enough for a proper hockey game anyway. I asked & they don't have hockey there, just figure skating & it was packed. I guess it was afterschool lesson time. It just felt good to be near a rink. I even took a picture of the zambonie - I know I'm so strange.

Caught a bus back home, actually it took 2 buses to get here, but didn't have any problems. My map book was one of the best investments I've made since being here.

That's it for now. Time for bed.

HK Park Aviary - Dec 5, 2006

Happy Ninja Day - I saw on the internet that Dec. 5 is Ninja day. Just a random tidbit of little interest, although I emailed this to Brooks & it prompted a call from him, so that was well worth it for me!

Today I met up with my friend Sarah (the one from the Delhi airport). She suggested doing something & then eating lunch. When she heard I'd not been to Hong Kong Park yet we decided to meet at the HK Park aviary. I walked to the park from work. I had a jacket because the weather has cooled down some, well today was not one of those days. I was sweating up a storm by the time I reached the aviary. It took me about 20 minutes to get there & mostly uphill. My workout for the day.

The aviary was wonderful. Many colorful birds & some not colorful, but interesting just the same. It was very peaceful to listen to the songs of the birds, a nice change from city traffic. The part of the park that I saw looked great. Lots of business people escaping to "the wilderness" for their lunch. I wish our office were closer, I think I'd be a regular luncher.

Last week Sarah picked the restaurant, so this week it was my turn. I suggested Elgin Street which is not far from our apartment, in an area called Soho (I think every city must have one - here it means SOuth of HOllywood Ave). Elgin street is well known for all of it's restaurants. Sarah had never been, so it was a good place for her to explore a little. The restaurants on Elgin Street represent almost every country that has any kind of cuisine. It's really fun. Of course the newest place on Elgin is a Krispy Kreme - uggg.

We settled on Nepal, which Sarah had never had before. I had eaten there once before and have always wanted to go back. We had a delicious lunch. A potato & eggplant & tomato dish. A chicken dish with nepalese spices. Nepalese dumplings & naan bread. Sarah had an appointment with a hairdresser that I had hooked her up with. We are discovering that it's hard to find Western hair people here. Asian hair is very different & the technique is not the same, from what I understand. So I asked a woman in my apartment building who has short curly hair & she gave me the name. Sarah also has short curly hair, so she tried it out. The cost was $700HK, which is about $85US, so I decided to let her try it first. I'm going to get mine cut when in the states. I guess this spring if I get desperate enough I'll have to try it.

I left her at Hippfish Salon. It was a nice day (although hot for December) & only 3:30, so I decided to check out another park. It is not too far from our apartment & I saw it last Sunday on my way to the bus for hiking. It's King George V Park. There is a soccer field, kids area, chess tables for the older men. It was a nice family type place. Although I did see some teenagers who were still in their school uniforms smoking. They were kind of way in the back behind some buildings. I felt like giving them a lecture, but figured they wouldn't understand me & have probably heard it before.

I heard from Sarah tonight & she said they seemed to know what they were doing. She said of course she wouldn't know for sure until tomorrow morning when she washes it. She does use a hairdryer either & just towel dries it. She wants a no fuss do. Are we so much alike? I hope it is good.

Sunday, December 03, 2006

Sunday Dec. 3, 2006 - Mt Davis Hike

Sunday we like to enjoy a good breakfast/brunch. Brunch is pretty popular here. John had tried a place earlier in the week (a breakfast meeting) not too far from our house called The Flying Pan (cute). He liked it so we decided to go for brunch on Sunday. It was small & packed, but we got a table & had a relaxing meal. They had several varieties of eggs benedict, so we tried those. They were surprisingly good - I had mine with tomatoes & spinach.

It was a beautiful day, so I wanted to do my usual Sunday hiking. There is supposed to be a good hike on the other side of the island called Dragon's Back. I wanted to check the internet to make sure I knew where I was going. Well my internet was being freakish, so I wasted a good part of the day trying to figure it out. John wasn't feeling too well - breakfast maybe? I was fine.

I finally got the info I was looking for, but it seemed too late to do that hike. I'm not sure how long it would take, but didn't want to take the chance of getting caught in a strange location after dark (see I am somewhat cautious). It was around 2pm by now. I decided to get a bus out to a place called Mt Davis. This isn't too far from home & the bus was an easy walk down the hill from our house. Also the hike didn't look too long.

I ventured out with my map book in hand. I didn't end up finding the path I was looking for to get down the hill, but got down another way. Passed an interesting looking park not far from our house that I've never seen before (another day). I always like taking new routes to places because I usually see something worth coming back to. I got to Queen's Rd West & found the stop for bus 3A. My handy map shows the bus routes which is great. I wait probably 15 minutes & finally decided to check out the bus route on the bus stop sign. Well wouldn't you know it, bus 3A doesn't run on Sunday. Oh NO, time to regroup. So I figured out what other bus options I had - bus 5 or 47M. Fortunately both run on Sunday. The 47M was the first to come, so I hoped on. I followed along in my map book so I'd know where to get off. The problem was that once we were away from the congested part of the route, there were few cross roads for me to note so that I knew my location. I noticed Mt Davis Path out of the window as we whizzed by. Ooops, that was my stop.

I decided that I might just stay on the bus & see where it ended up, just for the adventure of it. We went through Kennedy Town which is an area where many locals live. The terminus was about a 20 minute ride. It was interesting to see a different part of the island. When we stopped I asked the driver about Mt Davis. He spoke no English, but could read my map as it is in Chinese & English. He indicated that I had missed the stop (I knew that) & that if I waited he'd show me where to get off. He made me get out & there was a 20 minute wait until the bus headed back up the route. He indicated for me to sit near him at the front & told me not to pay again (they really are so nice). We retraced the route & this time I already knew where I needed to get off, but he kindly told me. I thanked him profusely & I"m sure he got a good laugh about the dumb American. At least I try! The key to riding the buses is to check out the stops on the post next to the bus stop. If you can read the stops as you go along (the stop name is listed at the top of the bus stop sign) then you can figure out which one is before the one you want & ring the bell for your stop. The problem is they don't necessarily stop at every stop (if there is nobody getting off or waiting there to get on) so sometimes you can miss one or not be able to read which stop it is. It can be very frustrating. I'm thinking the best idea in the future is to get the name written in Chinese & show the driver when I get on. Have to try that next time.

So I found the trail without difficulty. It was 4:15, so I had a few hours of sunlight left. It was a steep path, but paved & very well maintained. The views were wonderful, but it was very hazy, so not very clear photos. Got a good workout going up. Took about an hour. They do a good job on these main trails. There was a rest area about half way up with toilets & picnic tables & an emergency phone. I had noticed several emergency phones last weekend too. Also good signs for side trails. On my map there was something that said "unused battery". I thought it a strange marking, but once on the trail I realized what it meant. There were some remnants of WWII batteries that were along the trail. There was some action here during WWII that involved trying to keep the Japanese out I believe. So these were set up to protect the island.

At the top was a huge youth hostel. It had a spectacular view. I went in looking for hiking maps, but he didn't have any. He did show me a great potential hike for another day, but he said it would take about 7 hours so to leave early. He said it is the most popular hike among the local population. Another weekend.

There was a photo shoot going on at the top. About 4 models & each had about 10 photographers snapping away. It was kind of strange, I wouldn't expect so many photographers, but then I had no idea who they were or what it was about. A little way up from the hostel was a picnic area/ park. I could hear what sounded like shooting (popping noises in rapid succession). I heard some voices in the woods, then a guy ran out in camouflaged clothes & a mask & goggles, carrying a gun. An adult standing near me must have noticed the look on my face & he said - "no problem, they are just playing. Not real guns or bullets. No problem. I'm with them, no problem." I just laughed & said, I understood. Heck I have boys who would probably love to be doing this.

On up the trail were several remains of WWII structures. I'm sure some living quarters & batteries. It was interesting. I went to the top & got a great view of the bay & other mountains of HK. I could see the tops of some of the downtown buildings beyond the hills. It was starting to get dark, so time to head down. Much faster going down. I got another 47M bus to get back to Central. Stopped at a bookstore in the mall there. It's a very upscale mall so it was funny that I was there in my hiking boots & sweaty clothes. I'm just a fashion statement!! Took the escalator to our neighborhood. Stopped to get some salad fixings for dinner. Our local store has a sushi area & very good fresh sushi. I can get 6 crab or salmon rolls for $1. That has become my favorite meal lately. Sushi & salad. John had a productive day & was feeling better. Spent the rest of the evening finishing my India blog (thank goodness that is done).

So now I'm all up to date. Photos are posted & blogs all done. Time to head to work!!

Incredible India Part 5 - Depart Delhi

Part 5
Sunday Nov. 19,2006

John got up several times during the night & started becoming sick to his stomach. By morning he was vomiting & had pretty bad diarrhea as well. Our plan for the day was to tour Delhi on a bus tour or hire a taxi. Well John was in not shape to even get out of bed, except to hit the bathroom. He was having chills & then sweats, so I knew he had a fever. I went down & asked for a later checkout & the desk manager called a doctor for me. She said she would be right over, it was about 10am. She came over & John was indeed running a fever. She asked what he’d had to eat & we all decided it must have been the yogurt. Word of warning – that is one of the don’t eat foods when traveling to other countries. We should have known that, but just didn’t think about it. We mostly ate in hotel restaurants which are considered safe. The doctor gave him 2 injections & several pills to take during the rest of the day. The vomiting & diarrhea stopped pretty quickly, but he had a fever most of the day & stayed in bed. I have to admit that I was not the least sorry to have to spend the day in the hotel. I really had had enough & was ready for a day of rest.

At one point I did venture out to the gas station next door to the hotel to get some Gatorade & juice. I got hit up by several taxi drivers. After getting the drinks I decided to just take a walk along the street to stretch my legs. This one rickshaw driver wanted to give me a ride. I kept telling him I wanted to walk & that I was not going anywhere. He literally followed a long side of me as I walk for probably a quarter mile constantly asking me if I wanted a ride. I finally got so annoyed that I turned around & started walking in the opposite direction & the street was too busy for him to make a U turn & follow me. Several other drivers stopped & I said NO. I finally figured out that if I walked on the street going against the traffic they would not be able to harass me. This was much nicer. I guess in India, they just don’t know the word NO!!!

Alok picked us up to get John to the airport for a 6pm flight. I thought he should stay for another night in the hotel, but he insisted on going. He was miserable & couldn’t keep his eyes open. He had a flight to Mumbai, then over night to Bangkok. Had to do some business in Bangkok & arrive back in HK Monday around 7:30pm. I thought he should just try to get a direct flight back to HK, but he didn’t. We got him to the airport & I later found out that for about $200 he was able to upgrade to business class & he just slept the entire time. Guess that worked out alright.

My flight was not until 11pm, so Alok & Rajnee took me to a coffee shop to get some food. We had some veg sandwiches which were great. The coffee shop was in a little complex with a McDonalds (serving ice cream only) & a gas station. There was a guard in the parking lot that Alok spoke with before we went in. I asked what it was about & he said he just asked him to keep a special watch on our car. He is hired by the stores to protect the patron’s cars.

After eating we went to a street bazaar that has wares from all the different states of India. It is government run & has a very festive atmosphere. They had some wonderful items, but I didn’t have much money left, which was probably good. They have beautiful embroidered scarves for like $5. There were lots of unique products & it was fun to look around. The selling wasn’t as intense as outside & it helped to have Alok & Rajnee with me. We stopped at a café & had some Chi Tea. Rajnee & Alok gave me some earrings made form mother of pearl to remember my first visit to India. I thought that was really sweet of them. They are such genuine people, it was nice to get to know them. They said next time we have to stay with them & see what an Indian home is like.

I got to the airport in plenty of time. Rajnee made sure I knew where to go. You can only enter the airport if you have a boarding pass, so she had to leave me at the entrance. It was pretty confusing inside, but I managed to finally find the Air India desk. I got to the front & was told that I couldn’t check in because I had not had my bag x-rayed yet. When I asked where to do that the guy just said “next”. I wandered a little & finally asked a nicer worker who showed me where to go. They just have this x-ray machine set in the middle of the lobby of the airport. From what I could see there were no signs to tell you to do this. I got the bag x-rayed & went back & this time was able to check the bag. Next to the immigration line. I noticed that people were filling out papers. I asked a couple that I could hear were American what they were doing. They explained that I needed to get the paper & fill it out before going to the immigration. This is an exit paper. In HK when you come in you fill out a paper & they leave part of it in your passport & that is what you need when you leave. Not so simple in India. My immigration officer was an older man who looked like he should have retired several years ago & he acted like it too. He didn’t look anyone in the eye, just waved his hand to come or to go. When it was my turn he waved me in, looked at the paperwork, burped very loudly, then waved me away. It was so comical.

In the waiting room I made a point to find the American couple I’d met outside. They had said the live in HK, so I figured they’d be on my flight & they were. We had a great conversation & I immediately felt like I could relate to the woman, she is about my age & we had a great deal in common. We exchanged names & phone numbers & email addresses. I guess if you are reading my blog you already know that we got together last week & it was great. My new friend Sarah!! One last incident that happened on the plane. The dinner was good, I can’t even recall what it was, but there were some mixed veggies with the meal. There was a delicious looking green bean that I grabbed up & chomped into. After a few good chews, my mouth began to feel like there was a fire in it I have never in my life experienced anything like this feeling. I started to cry & really wanted to ask them to let me off the plane, I thought I would not make it. It was so painful. Fortunately there was some plain yogurt served with the meal. I took a huge spoonful & just let it sit in my mouth for about 5 minutes. I very very slowly ate the rest of the container of yogurt, letting it rest in my mouth to ease the pain. It finally felt better, but what an awful experience. Just the right ending to my trip!!

I can’t tell you how wonderful it was to be back in HK. The efficiency, the cleanliness, the politeness – wonderful!! We arrived home without problems around 8am & went right to bed. It was so nice to be back in my own bed. John got home later that night & was feeling much better. He had a good night sleep as well.

So over all, it was an “interesting” trip. I’m glad I went, but I can’t say I would be excited about going back. I’m sure there are many wonderful places to see in India, but I wouldn’t really want to go back to Delhi or Agra. Maybe to see the Taj in the full moon, but that would be it. I think they next trip I’d like to try a different country. I think the best thing out of this trip is probably going to prove to me meeting Sarah & having a friend in HK who isn’t connected to Cadmus.

Finally I have finished this blogspot. That is a relief. I know it was long & detailed, but I do this more for me, so that I will remember everything when I ever get a chance to reread it all.

Oh, a little test of your knowledge. Is the Taj-Mahal one of the 7 wonders of the world? Our guide said it was & he named the other 6. When we got back I couldn’t remember them all, so I looked them up on the computer. Our guide said they were: 1. Taj-Mahal, 2. Great Wall of China, 3. Pyramid of Giza, 4. Colossus of Rhodes, 5. Leaning Tower of Pisa, 6. Hanging Gardens of Babylon, 7. a temple on the Nile (Sue will kill me for not remembering that one).
I didn’t argue with the guide, but I had remembered reading about this & recalled that most of the 7 wonders were no longer in existence. My memory was correct. When I checked online, it said that although there were several lists with wonders of the world, the original 7 wonders of the ancient world were: 1. Pyramid of Giza (still there), 2. Hanging Gardens of Babylon, 3. Statue of Zeus at Olympia, 4. Temple of Artemis at Ephesus, 5. Mausoleum at Italicarnassus, 6. Colossus of Rhodes, 7 Lighthouse of Alexandria

There now you can’t say you didn’t learn anything from me. I’m sure my dad knew those, didn’t you dad?

Indredible India Part 4 - The Taj-Mahal

Part 4
Saturday Nov. 18, 2006

Up early as the guide was to meet us early so we could catch the Taj-Mahal while the sun was low in the sky. I’ll explain why later. Had a wonderful buffet breakfast at the hotel. The Taj was about a 10 minute drive from the hotel. We had to park fairly far away because they do not let gas powered cars near the Taj for pollution & security reasons. We got into a rickshaw for the rest of the ride. There was a long line to get in as they do a pat down search of each person. Of course the women’s line was way longer than the men’s line. I did meet a very nice woman from Brighton, UK who had just come from a week near the mountains & said it was breathtaking.

Once inside the Taj is amazing. It consists of several buildings, but the largest & most famous is the white domed building that Akbar built for his favorite wife after she died. He is entombed there as well. All the buildings were spectacular, but the main building just amazing. Photos don’t come close to the feeling of awe to be next to it. It is so large & imposing & delicate & beautiful. Carving in marble, inlay work, detail that is incredible. The reason we went early in the morning is because at that time the angle of the sun shines onto the semi-precious inlay stones & makes the building shimmer. John tried to get a photo, but it didn’t show the shimmering. It was beautiful. They say if you visit during a full moon the effect is even more impressive. It was a new moon when we went – can’t have it all. We spent about 3 there with the guide. He let us wander on our own for a while too. He said they get from 10,000 to 15,000 visitors a day there. It is so large that you didn’t get bothered by the other visitors.

After the Taj we decided to just relax in our room until we had to check out. We had a 3:30pm train back to Delhi. It was nice to be away from the hawkers & hustlers. You really need down time in India. The hotel had lovely gardens that we walked through & I found a nice quiet place to read. It was very relaxing.

We had a driver to take us to the train station (arranged by the tour company). The driver was not to leave us until the train left the station. Again we were very glad for this because the train was late & they kept changing platforms where it was to come in. If the driver had not been there we would have been lost. The train was over an hour late. The driver suggested he just drive us back to Delhi, it might be faster. John was tempted, but I said NO. I just couldn’t take being on these roads any more than we had to. It was just too frightening. The wait at the station was interesting. There were lots of flies & beggars which seemed to gravitate towards John. If you closed your eyes & just listened to the people hawking their wares & the other sounds, it sounded to me like a song. There was a man clanging a spoon against his soup bowl to get people’s attention & all sorts of people calling out & it was just musical. I guess the Indian language is a soft rhythmic language. John pointed out the men hosing down the train track & said the driver told him it was to clean the toilet waste that drops while the train is in the station (the train toilets just let out onto the track).

The train came & the driver got us into our seats & left. This was not nearly as nice a train. We were in a sleeper car & had the compartment to ourselves. It was getting dark & the window was so dirty you really couldn’t see out of it. John spent a good part of the trip between cars where there was an opening you could see out of.

Good thing we were going to the last stop, because there is no way to tell where you are or where to get off. We got a little nervous at one point but the conductor said “last stop”. When the train got to Delhi, it was obvious. Suddenly the car as filled with porters trying to take your bags. We only had one small duffle bag, but one of them grabbed it, said 100Rupees & took off. As soon as we got out of the car, there was our friend Alok to meet us. He started talking to the porter & they both began yelling. Finally Alok grabbed the bag from the porter & stormed off. We asked what it was about & he said that the port was charging us a ridiculous price. When he goes there & has several large bags they only charge him 25Rupees, so he was extremely upset that the man was going to charge us 100. He said he just hates it when they rip off foreigners like that.

Alok had his car & Rajnee was waiting. We had planned to have dinner together. After driving around we finally found a restaurant for Indian food. Saturday nights are very busy in Delhi. I’m glad to say that Alok is a better driver than the taxi drivers. Alok & Rajnee ordered for us. They got a variety of India dishes. Rajnee is a veg (that’s what they call themselves). She said she’s never had a piece of meat or egg cross her lips. Being veg is very common among the Hindu & very common in India. Everywhere you go they offer veg food (it is really nice). One item they ordered was another tandoori dish. John found it too hot for him, so he asked for some yogurt. It didn’t bother me, I guess I’m tougher than I thought. We finished with the Indian ice cream & then they took us to the hotel. This night was better, no loudspeaker calling out taxi numbers.

Incredible India Part 3 - Arrive in Agra

Part 3 - Agra
Friday Nov. 17, 2006

As we had to catch a 6:15am train to Agra, we were up at 4:15am. Actually we didn’t sleep much as our window happened to be near the back entrance of the hotel. I think there must have been a disco or something, because all night I heard them calling for cars. I don’t think I explained this before. Because so many people have drivers or hire drivers to stay around until they are ready to go home, the doormen have microphones attached to loudspeakers. You get the plate number of your driver’s car & when you are ready for him you give the doorman the number & they announce it over the loudspeaker. It is really loud because the driver’s area is a good ways away from the door. John said this is a common practice at all hotels & big restaurants. So all night long they loudspeaker was calling taxis. The last time I had checked the clock when I heard the numbers was 3:30am. I was not happy!!

Pradeep met us with a taxi & driver at 5am. For the first time the streets were fairly empty & there was very little need for honking – what a relief. I did notice that the driver went through every single red light we came to. I was told later that during off hours you don’t need to follow the traffic rules (as if they do during on hours). We got to the station by 5:45 & there were people all over. People were sleeping on the sidewalk & all through the station. I felt like I was in a movie. The level of poverty evident here was really too much to even make you feel badly. It was totally surreal, like an out of body experience. I really felt numb, like an observer, watching it on video. Of course the beggars that wouldn’t leave us alone were pretty real, but I had been told ahead of time to NEVER look at them & totally ignore them & eventually they will go away. I’m telling you it takes great discipline to ignore them & not look, but it does work. Pradeep located the platform we needed to be on & stayed with us until the train came. It was on time & we had assigned seats in a first class car. This is India first class which means we got seats & didn’t have to be in the cattle car with 500 other people. Our car was mostly Westerners & although old, the seats were comfortable & there was plenty of leg room. We were served food which included a bowl of corn flakes with hot milk, an omelet that was pretty good, bread & tea or coffee & juice. Not bad.

We left about on time. It was just stating to get light as we pulled out of the station. I was in the window seat & I noticed many people along the side of the tracks. Many appeared to be squatting (by many I mean I could see probably 10 at any time as we went along). I pointed this out to John & he looked & said, “maybe they are saying morning prayer or something like that.” I said that I doubted morning prayer involved having their pants around their ankles & wiping their crotches with their hands & water. John took a closer look & agreed with me. This scene went on until we got out of the city. The men faced the train & women faced away from the train. We found out later that these are immigrant workers who were just getting up to work & live in places that have no toilets. The train track is a common toileting area for these people. Nobody we mentioned this to seemed very surprised except of course other Westerners. “Incredible India” We also saw many tent villages as we left the city & people just sleeping on a blanket on the ground all over the place.

As we into the countryside it was mostly farm land. I noticed huts made of hay in the fields. These are for storing the harvest & tools. There were a few fields that had tractors in them which looked very old. Most towns we passed appeared not to have any cars in them, mostly there were oxen or horses pulling wagons. I noticed some monkeys climbing on trees & walls. The landscape was very flat & empty. The sky was hazy & there was a mist across the land. There were very few trees & the ones I did see were small. For some reason it made me think of photos I’ve seen of the African savanna.

We arrived in Agra after a 3 ½ hours ride. As we got off the train there was a very loud drum beating & people shouting. We got onto the platform & there was a group of people gathered around with flags waving & the drum pounding. It turned out there was an important politician on the train & these were his supporters there to greet him. We left the station & happily saw someone holding a card with our name on it. Nice to have drivers & guides already arranged (Rajnee had done this for us along with getting the train tickets – this makes touring here 100% easier, I can’t even imagine trying to buy tickets or getting from the station to the hotel without help).

The main street of Agra is 4 lanes (officially) & is not nearly as busy as the Delhi streets. The streets are paved, but nothing else is, so it is very dusty. There were a lot more animals & bicycles on the streets here. Agra is a tourist town, so we were told it has all the modern things like McDonald’s, Pizza Hut, KFC (but surprisingly, no Starbucks). In your wildest imagination, Agra is far from modern, in fact nothing here looked new, although there were several buildings under construction, but nothing new finished. Mostly it looked like a dust town that had been ignored for several years.

We got to our hotel & were able to check in. We were booked at the Sheraton & it was an oasis. It was beautiful I am happy to say. It had fountains that worked & wonderful gardens & marble everywhere. AND the doormen were dressed like the Indian soldiers you see in the old movies right down to the curly toed shoes. There were so cute & nice, they saluted everyone. There was even a welcome sign in the front of that had our name on it (along with about 15 others, but it was fun to see our name up there). The room looked onto one of the gardens.

We headed back out with our guide & driver to go see another fort that is about 30 miles outside of Agra called Fatehpur Sikri. This being a Friday, the Taj-Mahal is closed (not good planning). One great thing about having a guide is that you get lots of information & can ask all of your dumb questions. This guy was really great. He said the reason cows are sacred is because they car so useful. They produce food (milk & other dairy products), fuel (from the dung), shelter (from the dung also – they use it for the walls), fertilizer (again that wonderful dung). I think there were some other things as well, but I can’t recall what they were.

Just the drive to this place was an experience of a lifetime. It took over an hour to get there & we had to go through the old part of Agra. This was just something I really can’t describe. There were every type of vehicle you could imagine on the road: wagons being pulled by horse, mule, oxen, & camel (no elephants this time), bicycles, bicycle rickshaws, motor rickshaws, mopeds, motorcycles cars, trucks, tractors, buses, people walking, cows (they are sacred so can go anywhere they like & they tend to like the streets). All of these vehicles were on the road jockeying for position & honking of making whatever sound they could to get ahead of the other vehicles. The guy on the bike didn’t mind cutting off a truck. We were stopped at one point because there were police in the intersection surrounded by people all yelling (we couldn’t figure out why). Right next to us a guy pulls on driving a bike rickshaw with 2 women in it. On the other side of him is a school bus. Suddenly the driver of the bus jumps out of the bus & grabs the rickshaw driver by the throat & pulls him into the air & is yelling at the top of his lungs. The women start yelling & another guy in the bus starts yelling. Again, a surreal moment. The guy being strangled obviously can’t yell. Finally the bus driver drops him & everyone keeps yelling. Our guide turns around to us & smiles & says “incredible India”. That is all the explanation he had or needed. We just couldn’t imagine what a guy in a bike rickshaw could do to a school bus that would upset the driver so much.

The streets in old Agra are much narrower & the traffic was ridiculously congested. Nobody voluntarily giving way for anyone else. You only proceed by pushing your way through the traffic. The shops were small & cluttered. People appeared to be living in the dirt. There were children walking around barefooted with trash all over. There were animals just wandering around like the cows, pigs, goats, dogs, mules. It was pretty much an overload of your sensibility going through this area. There is no way to describe it accurately. At this point I was thinking “I’m never going to be able to blog this. This just is beyond anything I’ve ever experienced in my life. This just HAS to be experienced to be believed.” So whatever I’ve just written about this doesn’t come close to the real thing by any stretch of the imagination. Anyone who’s been to India will say the same thing.

Once out of town it was again farmland. This is when we asked about the people toileting along side of the train in Delhi. The guide told us why they do that. I asked about the farm people & he said the farmers are too proud to do that, they don’t have toilets, but each village has a public toilet for all of the villagers to use. Being out of town I thought the driving would get better, but now the drivers were able to go faster & they don’t like to slow down. There were many trucks & farm vehicles on the road, so the driver was constantly passing. This was supposed to be a 2 lane road, but mostly the made it 4 lanes & usually 3 were going in the same direction. There were several times that I just buried my face into John’s arm as we did a blind pass of a truck. I’m glad to say there were not even any close calls, but it was unnerving to say the least.

The fort (which in India means the same thing as palace) took 14 years to build & was occupied & acted as the capital of India for only about 10 to 15 years. It was built by Akbar the Great (he built the Taj & Red Fort & many other buildings in India, which contributed to his demise). There were some political reasons that it was placed there & then politics had the capital moved. There is also a story that once it was built they realized there was no source of water near by, so it was abandoned. These buildings were also made of red sandstone, like the Red Fort in Delhi. This emperor had 3 wives & each one had a building built for her. This emperor was very good at keeping the different religious factions of India united. Each wife was of a different religion: Hindu, Muslim & Christian. Akbar thought it was so important for harmony among the people that he started a new religion that was meant to unite all the people. It didn’t really take on, but was a good idea. The fort was beautiful & the tour most interesting. It is well worth having a tour to get the most out of what you are seeing.

We left the fort & stopped at a restaurant on the way back to Agra. It was obviously there for the Western tourists. They had a buffet with some interesting items, but nothing very spicy. The guide had something different & it was filled with peppers & curry. We offered to pay for him, but he said he got his meal for free for bringing us there. That is how it’s done there as we soon learned. Our guide asked if we’d be interested in seeing how hand knotted rugs are made. We should have realized what he was up to, but we didn’t. Of course we said yes. Our guide turned us over to Bobby, the rug man. Bobby was extremely nice. The rug factory had a front area for display where a man was knotting a rug. Bobby explained in great detail how the process works & the man making the rug slowed down so we could see his technique. Then we were taken to the area where they dye the wool, then where they made the designs. I guess this place gets together all of the materials, then ships them out to a home where they produced the rug. Agra is well know for it’s cottage industry.

Then came the show room. Bobby very cleverly asked if we knew how to tell a real hand knotted rug from a fake. We didn’t know, so a huge rug came out & he showed us. We were brought drinks & offered a seat & the selling began. Before we knew it he was showing us rug after rug. He remained very nice & informative, but he was working hard to part us with our money. As he realized we were not going for the larger rugs he progressively had his men bring out smaller & smaller ones. I think we finally got down to one that was around $600. I had had enough by this time – they just don’t give up. I whispered to John, I’d rather spend $600 on a plane ticket somewhere than on a rug. I got up & left. John came out about 5 minutes later & said I finally told Bobby that we needed the $600 to fly our son over to visit us. Bobby didn’t have a comeback for that. They are hard sellers, but nice people. Our guide & driver were waiting. I’m thinking the guide might have gotten a commission had we spent some money.

Another thing Agra is famous for as marble & semi-precious stone inlay pieces. This is what is in the Taj-Mahal. John asked the guide how one can tell the difference between a real marble piece & a copy. Well, of course the guide had a friend who owns a factory that produces that very thing. Next stop – hard sell on marble inlay items. Outside the factory (they are really stores) were some men grinding down the stones & another man carving out the marble to place the stones into. They have a special natural adhesive that keeps the inlay in place. The owner said that most of his workers were at the Taj because Friday it is closed for repair work. His family is the only family that is allowed to work on the Taj as his ancestors were some of the artisans who did the work originally (according to him). The items were amazing. They had tables; large & small, vases, plates, bowls, coasters, animals (lots of elephants) – all marble with inlay stones. He had some samples of fake (soap stone) products, pretty obvious. The products were way more expensive then we’d imagined. Of course it all depended on how much inlay work was used, but we looked at an average sized vase that was $600 (he ended up coming down some, but not that much). The drink coasters were $150 for 6. There was a large table made of green marble that was amazing. They guy said if I could guess the price he’d give it to me. I should have had him write it down before I said anything. I guessed $5,225 & he said $5,500 – really close. We were tempted to get something, but just felt like we were getting ripped off (and it turns out we were according to Alok who is from Agra – he said the prices were about double what they realistically should have been asking). We walked out empty handed but disappointed from there too.

On the way back to the hotel we passed by the Red Fort of Agra. This was also built by Akbar & ironically, his son’s got upset with him for spending all of the state money on all of these buildings all over India, so they knocked him out of power. He was imprisoned in this fort for 13 years until he died. We could see the “apartment” where he was kept prisoner & it was very nice – looked much like the Taj-Mahal. And poor Akbar could see the Taj from his “prison” room. The sons fought & finally the 3rd oldest son won out & became emperor. He wasn’t very nice & quickly alienated the people – no more harmony. Leaving the Red Fort we were on a divided road & the driver just U turned & went down the wrong side of the road. We had to go around a bus that was coming straight at us. John said something like “WOW, now I’ve driven in lots of countries but this is the first time I’ve gone down the wrong side of a divided highway.” Our guide turned around, smiled & said, you guessed it “Incredible India”. Then he explained that there was a traffic jam if he’d continued going in the correct direction & after about ½ a mile we came to a round-about & got going the right way. Whew!!

The last stop was a souvenir type store owned by the guides good friend. They sold all sorts of things so we got a few goodies. My favorite thing was a bottle of jasmine oil that is supposedly pure enough to eat. It was in the spice section. He said I could also use it as a perfume. I love it & put a little dab on every day. We had a hard time getting out of this store too. Every time you even glanced at something the brought it out & 5 things like it. You want this? NO. Well then how about this? NO, nothing more! Ok, you like this? This color looks good on you, you should buy 5! NO. It gets really tiring. I was so glad when we finally got back to the hotel.

We went to the rooftop patio & watched the sunset. You could see the Taj-Mahal in the distance. I guess at sunset if conditions are good the Taj will look pink. It didn’t. The sky was very hazy. I did look very impressive even from this distance. We ate at the Tandoori restaurant at the hotel. They let you come into the kitchen & watch them cook. It was really fun. We got the sampler platter which consisted of several types of meat with different spices. All were fairly hot. They serve yogurt with most meals because it works very well to kill the heat in your mouth when something is too spicy. We ended up with India ice cream which is kind of crystalline. John likes it a lot, I was not that impressed. It’s a strange flavor, I can’t remember what it is.

After dinner we decided to get a taxi to get some antacid (dinner didn’t sit too well with John). The taxi driver happened to be the same one we had during the day. It didn’t take long to see a store that would definitely have what we wanted, but the driver didn’t stop. We pointed it out to him, but he pulled up in front of a leather good store instead. He said his friend owned it & would give us a very good price. We said we were not interested in leather goods & just wanted to go to the drug store. He then pulled up in front of a marble goods store & said the place we went to during the day was not good & this was owned by his friend & we could get a good deal. We said we only wanted to go to the drug store we’d seen back near the hotel. Next was a clothing store, again owned by his friend, again we could get good deal. These people are really relentless. We threatened to get out of the car & walk if he didn’t take us back to were we wanted to go. He finally did. When we got back to the hotel he wanted to charge us too much (luckily John knew the ropes). He explained how far he’d driven us & John said we didn’t ask him to do that, so he was just going to pay him for going to the drug store, not to all the other places. The guy acted mad, but then said to be sure to ask for him in the morning.

Another day in India – WOW!! More sensor overload.

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Incredibly India - Part 2 - A Day in Delhi

Thursday Nov. 16, 2006

Breakfast was a very nice buffet with a combination of western & Indian foods. There was a veggie curry dish with rice & a very thin pancake filled with potato mixture that was really good. Of course tea & yogurt & fresh fruit (I was told it’s OK to eat these items at big hotels, but otherwise avoid fruit & yogurt). The other Cadmus people met us in the lobby (Alok & Pradeep – are the Cadmus Delhi staff), they were very nice. Alok’s wife, Rajnee works at the Shangri-La Hotel in Delhi, so she had sent a list of things that I might enjoy doing for the day. John had to work, so I was on my own. The Cadmus guys met in the hotel for about an hour & I decided to entertain myself my walking the grounds of the hotel. It looked like it was attempting to be elegant, but nothing seemed to be finished or working or in repair. There was trash all around, piles of it. There was a very nice walkway across the front of the lawn, but no good way to get to it. You had to go through some bushes or mud to get to it on either end. I did notice a fairly nicely dressed man urinating on the side of the hotel. I guess this is not unusual. I thought I had seen a man the night before doing the same thing along the street on the way to the hotel. I noticed that the women have the most incredibly beautiful clothes, brightly colored with embroidery & sequins. Most of the women wear the traditional saris or baggy pants with long tunic top & always a scarf. Everything matches & everything is bright. The men are mostly in earth colors – beige, brown, tan. Sometimes the younger men will have bright colored shirts.

When it came time for the Cadmus crew to depart I have to admit that for the first time in a very long time I was really scared about going out on my own. John & I went to the room to get something & I actually broke down & cried. I guess all that I’d been told & my experience thus far just freaked me out. It was so different from anywhere I’d ever been before. I told John I just wanted to stay in the room all day. John assured me that India isn’t unsafe; you just are very likely to get ripped off if you don’t know what you are doing. Westerners are over charged for everything. He explained that I could hire a taxi for the day & he would just wait for me & be there when I was done to take me to the next place. To my way of thinking this sounded very extravagant, but John assured me that is how it is done & it will probably be less than $20 for a taxi for the day & I should not worry about it. Alok very nicely negotiated the taxi for me & told him exactly where to take me. Alok told me it was going to cost 650Rupees for the entire day & not to pay him until he brought me back to the hotel at the end of the day. So, 650 Rupees is like $13.00, what a deal. I was feeling better already.

My driver was very nice & spoke some English. He told me the hotel was in New Delhi which is where all of the embassies are located. He seemed to know them all and pointed them out to me as we passed. All were very well fortified with huge fences & barbed wire & guards with machine guns outside. My first stop was the National Train Museum. The driver told me exactly where he would be waiting for me. When I got my ticket (which was about 20 cents), I noticed that you could also rent a canoe, kayak or raft. This seemed kind of strange at a train museum, but I thought there must be some park or something. The museum consisted of lots of trains scattered around a mostly dirt area. There was a building that had many artifacts & history about trains in India. It was interesting, but I don’t really know much about trains, I mostly liked the brightly painted engines (as you can tell if you’ve seen my photos). The museum looked very neglected & outdated. There were indeed some canoes & kayaks & a rubber raft in the grass area, but the only water I could see was a large tiled pond that couldn’t have been more than 2 feet deep & was probably only 100’x 30’. Nobody was using the boats.

When I left I looked over where the driver said he’d be & there was no taxi. My heart dropped for a second until I heard a honk & looked up & he was there at the entrance waiting for me. He smiled & asked how I like the museum. My heart raised back up & I felt my confidence coming back. Next stop was a market, they always want you to shop. The driver said he would give me 30 minutes & meet me back at 2:00. The shops were very expensive. My driver was there just as he promised. Feeling better…….

Next stop, National Museum of Modern Art. On the way we stopped at the Gate of India. I’m not sure the significance of it, but it was impressive. I sign at the front desk said “Indian native 10Rupee; foreigner 150Rupee”. Being a state run facility this didn’t seem unreasonable and 150Rupee is only just over $3. I got out my 150 & they man looked at me funny & said, “No, you just pay 10, that is fine.” So I guess the government isn’t interested in ripping off the Westerners.

The museum was interesting, they had a multi-media show – photos, paintings, videos. The artists were young artists around India. Some of the pieces were very Bollywoodish. I enjoyed it & fortunately it wasn’t too big. My driver predicted that it would take me about an hour & a half & he’d meet me in that time & sure enough he was right on the money. I got out to the designated meeting place & there were some taxi drivers there. They wanted to give me a ride. I said I had a car, then they wanted to drive me to my car. I said I had a car AND a driver who was going to meet me. They said he might not show up & I should take a ride with them. Just at that time, my wonderful driver pulled up in front & I hopped in.

I don’t want to make it sound like India a terrible place. I guess it is just so different that it is kind of a shock to a westerner’s senses. I have to say that although the drivers & storekeepers are pushy, they are really really nice. They are so good at trying to get you to buy things. They just don’t take no for an answer, but they are gracious and nice about it. I guess you take 2 tactics, you ignore everyone trying to sell something (like I did) or you play their game and bargain & argue. I make the arguing sound very negative, but I realized that it is just the culture. It seemed like everyone there likes to argue or bargain – it’s all in how you look at it. The bargaining is just the way of life & they are always looking for a way to make a few extra Rupees – I guess nothing wrong with that, just not what I’m used to.

The driver took me past a golden roofed Mosque & the Catholic Cathedral. We stopped at one more shopping place. There is a place in Delhi called the Cottage Industries Emporium that is government run. The prices there are set & they are generally fair prices. This is for tourists who don’t like the bargaining thing & just want to get some souvenirs. He took me to a small corner store that said Cottage over the door. It was 2 floors and the prices seemed very expensive. I looked at the Pashminas (shawls) & for plain ones they wanted $15. I started to walk out & the man said “Come on, it’s only like $15 US. You can afford that. Don’t be cheap.” Did I happen to mention that many Indians speak English very well? I told him that I lived in Hong Kong & could get very nice, designed Pashminas for less than $10. He didn’t have a response to that – amazing! Later when I told our friends about where I’d been taken, they said that wasn’t the real Cottage Emporium, because it is an entire city block & several stories high. I had been told that this is a common practice if you don’t know where you are going. They will take you to their friend’s store who has put a sign up similar to the real one & I’m sure the drivers get some commission if you buy stuff. Glad I didn’t get taken in by this one.

I was pretty tired by then & asked to be taken back to the hotel. The driver did so & I paid him the agreed upon sum. He gave me his card and said that if I needed a ride the next day to be sure to call him & he’d take care of me. They all seemed to do this.

I was to meet John at the hotel at 6pm. Our friends had gotten us tickets to go see the light & sound show at the Red Fort. I got a call from John that they were running late, they were meeting with lawyers & he would not be able to make the show. He was sending Pradeep (a Cadmus employee) to pick me up & Rajnee, Alok’s wife (he is the other Cadmus employee in Delhi) was going to join us as well. I felt a bit guilty like these people I didn’t even know were being forced to take out the boss’ wife, but there wasn’t much I could do about it. Pradeep turned out to be delightful & had never seen the Red Fort show before so was very glad to get to go. We picked up Rajnee at the Shagri-La Hotel where she works. What a gorgeous place. They even have gold fish bowls at the bottom of the banister on the top of the end column. I waited in the car with the driver while Predeep went in to get Rajnee. The hotel staff wasn’t too happy to have a crapy taxi out front with their BMW fleet so they were asking him to move. He was arguing with them & proceeded to hit the car behind us. The staff really got hot about this, but the driver got our & talked to the person & came back & said “no problem, he is a friend on mine.”

We drove through the old part of Delhi & I got to ask all of my questions about the city & it’s people. Rajnee was terrific & she’d never seen the Red Fort show either, so I didn’t feel so guilty. Rajnee asked me if I’d noticed how loud & rude the people were. I had to admit that I did notice this & she explained that the people in the north are like that. They just love to argue & yell. She asked me not to judge all of India by the people in Delhi. She said people in the south are totally different, very soft spoken and nice. I have to believe her. She explained also that New Delhi is the part of Delhi that the British built. It is where our hotel is & most of the good hotels are there along with all of the foreign embassies. We were going through old Delhi, which had much narrower streets and lots of markets bunched close together. It actually look a bit like HK, but much dirtier. There seemed to be a lot of dust. The streets were very crowded with people. There were buses that are so full people are hanging out the doors & windows. This area was even louder than New Delhi, which didn’t seem possible. The men in the buses hang out the windows & yell at the cars & people & constantly bang on the side of the bus. So you have the driver honking constantly & the people banging & yelling. It seemed a much livelier area than New Delhi where everything is surrounded by fences & barbed wire & armed guards.

The Red Fort was amazing. The stone is red, which is why it is called the Red Fort. I think each large city has a Red Fort. We were very thoroughly checked going in, pat down & bags searched. I didn’t realize it, but there have been several bombings in Delhi in the past few years, so they are very careful. I saw lots of guns there, but none looked very modern. I’m not sure some of them could even shoot they looked so old. The show was very informative about some of the history of India and a few of the emperors. The one who built this fort is the same one who built the Taj-Mahal. India has a very long history, so couldn’t tell it all in an hour program. I did learn that India’s Independence Day was August 15, 1947. The program was more sound than sight. The just lit up different parts of the buildings are the spoke. There was lots of sound effects though, someone had a really good time doing this. I’d say they went a little overboard. It was funny that when they spoke of one of the buildings they said it had been built for the Emperor’s slut. They used this word several times which I thought amusing. The only negative thing at the Red Fort performance was the mosquitoes. I had Capri pants on & my ankles got eaten up. I must have had 20 bites per leg. Good thing there isn’t malaria there.

When the show was over we went out & our taxi driver was waiting. As we were pulling out 2 men came up to the taxi & started arguing with the driver. Then Pradeep started getting into it too. They were obviously angry about something. Finally Rajnee spoke to the men in a very stern voice & then to the driver in a sterner voice & he put up his window & drove away. The men stood there yelling. What was happening is they were telling the driver he needed to pay them for the parking. The driver just sat there & argued with them (stupid). Rajnee finally told them she knew there was not a fee for parking at the fort & they were crooks & we’d just run them over if they didn’t move. She told the driver to put up the window & drive away. Sometimes it just takes a woman to straighten things out.

It was after 10 when we got back to the hotel. Everyone went home. John & I went to one of the hotel restaurants & had tandoori (a type of Indian cooking). We got meat, which is skewered, & it is cooked in a special tandoori clay oven. The Naan bread in India is wonderful. The meat was pretty spicy, but we managed it just fine. I only had to eat one Power Bar today (at lunch time since we never stopped to get anything). So far so good with the food. One day down 3 to go.

Incredible India - part 1 - Depart HK

That is an advertising slogan we see on TV here all of the time and is certainly fits.

I have to admit that I really did not do any preparation for my visit to India. Didn’t really know the history or the sights to see (other than the obvious – Taj-Mahal). I had heard from friends who had visited & from John. The messages from others were filled with warnings and cautions – be careful, don’t trust anyone, it isn’t like the US, be careful of the food, people there smell, it’s really dirty, you’ll see people living on the street all over, the beggars will not leave you alone – don’t give them anything. I don’t think anyone said anything positive. So I have to admit that I was extremely apprehensive about this trip (which isn’t generally what I’m like).

Wed, Nov. 15, 2006

I have to really begin by telling about my experience in HK before I left. HK is so amazingly efficient & clean. At the train station where you get the Airport Express train, there is a huge area where you can check your luggage & get your boarding pass. You can do this as early as you want on the day of your flight. I checked in a few hours early, then wandered the mall. I got a book for the trip & some Power Bars (just in case I couldn’t eat the food). Took the train to the airport – takes just under 30 minutes. Got to my gate without difficulty.

While I sat reading & waiting, I was reminded of my experience at the Indian Embassy when I went to get my visa (loud & argumentative). There was a group of about 7 or 8 people in the waiting area that appeared to be Indian. They were really really loud & seemed to be arguing most of the time we waited. They also were throwing their trash right on the floor (something you just don’t do in HK). They could hold their own in NYC for sure!

When we were asked to board, we had to go through another security check. They were taking away water bottles & lotion, etc…. All of the things every person flying has been warned about. Well this really large Indian man (one of the group that was so loud) walked right past everyone else waiting & straight to the front of the line. The Chinese are so reserved, nobody said anything, but the Chinese also know how to make their point. The guard doing the checking made this guy wait until everyone else went through. It was so funny. He just ignored the man’s ranting & raving & calmly checked the other people through in his polite Chinese way. Culture clash at it’s best or worst!

I was flying Air India (I was told I shouldn’t because it is always late, but it was the only non-stop to Delhi & the price was right). We boarded about 45 minutes late. I had the window bulkhead seat & to my surprise nobody was seated next to me. The loud group from the waiting area continued to be loud on the plane as people were seated. The large man who had to wait was particularly loud. The attendant asked him to sit down as we readied for take off, but he ignored her. He was on the other side of the plane, but obviously saw the empty seat next to me & came over & plopped himself down in it. He made some comment about there not being that much leg room & he got up again. Once again the attendant told him to sit, but he ignored her & went back to his original seat. I was much relieved.

The plane looked really old which didn’t much help my apprehension about this entire India experience. Everything appeared very well used & not updated. The headphones, although free, feel apart when I tried to put them on. But it was OK, because they didn’t have a movie, just lots of Indian MTV type stuff & reruns of Frazier & Everyone Loves Raymond. The bathroom was really awful – stuff was falling apart, the paper on the wall was peeling off. It made me think of when you go into an old person’s house & they haven’t updated anything since they bought the house 30 or 40 years ago. I did get a meal & the attendant suggested I not get the curry, so I had oriental chicken & it was fine.

Got to Delhi & for some reason they collect your boarding pass stub when you get off the plane. It kind of upset some people, so there was more arguing. Most international flights give you the immigration forms on the plane so you can complete them & have them ready, but not here. You had to stop at these big desks & complete the form, it was all very confusing. The airport reminded me of the plane, old & outdated. It was pretty confusing trying to figure out where the luggage came out, but I managed to find it. It was funny waiting for my bag, because there were about 5 men who must work for the airport who must have unloaded the unclaimed bags from the previous flight. Two of them had the bags overloaded onto luggage carts & 3 of them were yelling directions at them. They guys with the carts would start going one way, then one of the other guys would yell at him & point in the opposite direction & they would turn & the bags would fall off. They were all yelling at the same time & arguing. It must have taken them about 5 minutes before they finally left the area. If you haven’t already figured it out, India is a very noisy country.

Put my bag onto a cart & headed for the door. The exit was lined with men with signs, there must have been 100 of them. Fortunately my name was one of the first ones (I felt like in a movie with my name on a sign). The hotel had sent a driver for me, thank goodness. As we walked out of terminal there were tons of taxi drivers trying to get riders. It was loud & confusing. I actually didn’t even realize we had left the terminal until I noticed cars moving around. There were cars & motorcycles & mopeds everywhere. No kind of parking, just cars everywhere. We walked across the street & into a huge parking lot. We first went past hundreds of motorcycles & mopeds parked. Then there were cars parked all over. The lot was dirt & the cars looked very outdated & beat up – lots of dents. The car we had was an older Toyota & was nothing special, but it did have A/C. As we left the parking lot I saw a group of men sitting on a blanket in the middle of the parking lot playing cards. It was like 10:30pm. It just looked really strange.

OK, so driving in India is another incredible experience. I soon realized that most rules we have in the US are merely suggestions in India. Take lanes for instance – there may be 3 lanes painted on the road, but they are totally ignored. A 3 lane road will have 6 lanes of traffic traveling on it. They squeeze into any & every space that is available on the road, thus the dented up cars. I don’t think I saw one car that wasn’t dented. There are also many types of vehicles are jockeying for position on the road. The highway from the airport had huge trucks (which are very brightly decorated with bright paint & tassles), buses, vans, cars, motorcycles, mopeds, motorized rickshaws, human powered rickshaws & bicycles. And along with all of that, it seems mandatory for every driver to honk their horn at least 30 times a minute. If they want to get by another car, they honk like crazy until they are past. If they don’t want someone getting past them, they honk. It is pretty much constant honking. I guess since they can’t yell at each other, honking is the next best thing.

Red lights – another suggestion, not rule. We were stopped at a red light & when it turned green, the other cars just kept coming in front of us. The cars stopped with us just slowly crept out until they forced the other cars to stop. When we were going to the train station early one morning our driver never stopped at a single red light. When I asked our friends about this, you only really have to worry about red lights when the streets are busy, otherwise people usually ignore them. Driving direction – appeared to be optional as well. I noticed motorcycles going the opposite direction against traffic several times. Later in our trip when we were in Agra, our taxi driver went about 500 yards going the wrong way on a divided road. When we said something our guide just smiled & said “Incredible India, right!?” We had to go around a truck coming at us, fortunately we were both going very slowly.

Got to the hotel and I’m sure I was supposed to tip the driver, he walked me to the front desk & hung around. John had given me some Rupees, but I had no idea what they were worth, so I just smiled & thanked him. They will not allow you to take your bag anywhere in a hotel, even if it is small – they want the tip. John says they even try to take his brief case from him, they are very insistent. The hotel lobby was very nice & it was a huge hotel. Got to the room which was comfortable, but the bed was not the king size bed that John had asked for. Again, the room looked like it must have been nice maybe 10 years ago, but things just were not in good repair. At least the A/C worked well!! John arrived about an hour later & we went down to one of the many restaurants (Russian) for a beer.

No HAPPY HOLIDAYS in Hong Kong

It is unabashedly, Merry Christmas everywhere you look. I guess there aren’t enough Jews & Africans to want Kwanzaa & Hanukah included in the winter celebration. Also, the people here just don’t really care about being politically correct. They don’t really care about politics at all. I asked a friend of mine if people in HK were interested in politics & he said not at all, the only politics you really get in HK is the politics of money. It is very simple – you want something you pay for it, end of story.

So wish Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas probably would not be financially sounds. Since Christmas has come to mean the most commercial and materialistic time of the year, you can bet the HK people grasp it with glee. Buildings are getting decorated with twinkling lights & huge (building size) lighted Christmas signs are going up on many of the buildings. I hope to take a harbor cruise before we head home to the US & get some good photos. The stores are packed with Christmas stuff & all of the restaurants are advertising for their Christmas meals.

Here is the interesting thing. In the US since we make a big deal out of Thanksgiving, it is somewhat not accepted to start the BIG Christmas push until after Thanksgiving. But here, they don’t celebrate Thanksgiving, SO the Christmas onslaught begins as soon as the Halloween costumes are put away.

Last night I went out for dinner at the Hong Kong Country Club with a guy I knew when I went to Ithaca College in 1974-75. When I was here in April I remembered that his dad had a business here. He only went to IC for one year, then I never hear of him again. He’s from the UK. So last April I looked in the HK phone book & found the only Michael Bennett & called & sure enough it was him. We met for a few hours & caught up on many years. I’ve been so busy at work that I had not gotten a chance to contact him again until recently. The club was very nice. We sat outside by the bay (Deep Water Bay). It was quiet & peaceful (something we don’t get a lot of where we live on the other side of the island). We had a nice meal, then we went to the wine bar & he attempted to teach me about wines. I explained that I was really a beer drinker, but it was interesting so I went along with it. We started out with the house red & it was OK. So just to prove a point it picked out a wine from their huge stock. He poured me a glass & asked me to compare it to the first one. It was very smooth with a woody taste (see how much I learned). He then told me the first wine was about $20/bottle while the second was about $75/bottle. He said to him the second bottle wasn’t really that good either. I guess anyone who knows wines does not find this surprising, but I like my $3 bottle of beer just fine. It was a good education & sure nice to spend an evening at the HK Country Club. John chose not to join us & to catch up on work instead. Probably not a bad idea, although he does like wine better than I do.

Today, Saturday we just did some shopping around our neighborhood. I got Christmas decorations for the office. Got ingredients to make homemade pizza. Couldn’t find the sauce ingredients I’m used to, so not sure how it will be. This is also the first time I’ve bought chopped meat, but it is Brazilian, so I think it will be fine.