Our Anniversary

Here I sit at Laguardia Airport on my way back from NC to NY, just another delayed traveler. I have not spoken to one person in the US this summer who has not been delayed. Although we don’t necessarily look forward to airport delays, it does give us some down time away from distractions & chores, time to reflect if we so choose.

Today is July 30, 2007 – 30 years ago on this day, John & I had a pretty fun & it would seem successful wedding day. If any of you were there, you probably remember it. Seems to be one of those occasions that people still talk about. Of course Sunnywood weddings tend to be that way. Is it the location, the relaxed atmosphere or just the wonderful loving people present that make these occasions so special?

As I think back on the years & that day I realize that the location, Sunnywood (where John & I first met as kids & then met again as young adults); that atmosphere, laid back & filled with love; and those supportive people, Rileys, Hubbells, and terrific friends have all contributed to our successful relationship. Seems strange to be sitting in an airport on such a special day, far from those I love. But, what I’ve learned over the years is that true love and successful relationships can weather the test of time and distance. I’m in New York City, John is in Hong Kong, our family & friends are spread across the world, but I don’t feel lonely or depressed. Instead I feel fortunate and blessed to know I have that support & love spread out so far & going so deep.

My father told me recently that he didn’t believe we have souls & that when he died he would just be gone. As I think about Sunnywood & all those people out there that I love and care so deeply for, it is impossible for me to believe that we don’t have souls. I know we do because I can feel those souls in me and around me all of the time. I have such gratitude for the support & love of all of these souls, especially John’s.

Happy Anniversary to us & thanks to all of you for making it possible !!!